Why do some people have a "thick
skin" and seem able to completely ignore stress, while others don't? And
what is just as interesting: Where does this "protective layer" come
from or how does it evolve? Studies have shown that people with a high
level of resistance usually have the following seven properties or personality
traits:
- Problem-solving skills: Resistant people think in a solution-focused manner; they plan
ahead but are never worried about their future.
- Accepting (personal) responsibility: Resistant people never allow themselves to be victims.
- Self-efficacy:
Resistant people accept things as they are but don't allow them to remain
so.
- Self-esteem:
Resistant people believe in themselves and in what they do.
- Social skills:
Resistant people do not isolate themselves when they are under stress.
- Stress management strategies: Resistant people are able to organize support and can relax.
- Positive thinking: Resistant
people do not panic when faced with new challenges; they think, "I'll
manage it somehow."